Note: I shared this with my family in 2023, while on my train trip to Washington, DC. I remember thinking of it as a blog post, but never posted it.
Every Christmas, I have a list of constants or activities that revolve around Christmas and the holidays that I do. They’re not complicated. They just remind me of the spirit of Christmas, even though I’m an Athiest (in some cases because I’m an Athiest).
Books
I complete several books each Christmas. I started with one and added some books as they found me. I don’t say I “read” them anymore, mainly because I enjoy them in audio form.
Here is the list of books:
- A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens – There is no better story to better explain the spirit of the Christmas season. It’s good for believers and non-believers alike. It’s not like Scrooge gets a visit from Jesus or angels. He’s visited by ghosts that allow him to see how he’d moved away from the Christmas spirit that he had when he was younger, “remind him” about what it was like, and show him the opportunities in his life to return to that spirit.
- The Atheist’s Guide to Christmas by Richard Dawkins, Simon Le Bon, and Ariane Shrine – Last year, my daughter expressed to me that Christmas is meaningless to us because we’re Atheists. This book is a collection of essays about how other Atheists embrace the Christmas season, enjoying the parts of it that are not religious in nature.
- A Very Scalzi Christmas by John Scalzi – This book is very imaginative and very comical. My first time through it, I giggled all the way. It is not religious, perhaps bordering on blasphemy. At times, it does make a case for the spirit of Christmas.
Movies
There are movies that I watch each Christmas, mainly with the intention of feeling close to the spirit of the season.
- A Christmas Carol (the Patrick Stewart one) – See my notes about the book. I’m not sure why, but this one seems more authentic to me than the others.
- Scrooged – Bill Murray has always said he hated this movie. I like it. The actors make it great all on their own. The story and creative elements also strike a tone with me, especially changing Bob Cratchette into a poor single mom.
- It’s A Wonderful Life – This is one that captures Christmas time, but also stands as a reminder that, no matter how you feel about your life, you’re more significant than you think. It also has a stroke of karma at the end when all of the people that the main character had helped through his lifetime show up to help him.
- Elf – My wife likes it. As such, I wind up watching it. Now, I watch it because it reminds me of her.
- Trapped in Paradise – Three criminals decide to rob a small town in Pennsylvania during a blizzard that traps them in town. Through many attempts to leave the town, they fall in love with the town and its people, redeeming them in the process.
Songs
There are many songs that I like at Christmastime. There are many traditional songs that I find appealing. However, in this section, I’d like to talk about more recent tunes. I keep these, along with some others, in an Amazon Music playlist called “Dan’s Christmas”.
- Father Christmas by The Kinks – This song gives a portrait of what it is like at Christmastime from the point of a Salvation Army Santa Claus getting robbed by poor children.
- Happy Christmas (War is Over) by The Alarm – A song wishing everyone a merry Christmas.
- Nothing for Christmas by Newfound Glory – A song that values the interaction between people at Christmas over the gifts we give each other.
- Merry Xmas Everybody by Slade – Christmas memories and lore.


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